Pregnant with Lupus - Twice

They Said Pregnancy Would Be Dangerous… But God Had Other Plans ✨👶🏽💛

When I was first diagnosed with lupus, I was drowning in symptoms—fatigue that stole my energy, joint pain that made movement unbearable, unexplained fevers, and so much more. My body was in full rebellion. I fought for answers, and when I finally heard the words "You have lupus," the relief of knowing was quickly replaced with fear of the unknown.

Doctors told me my condition was chronic, unpredictable, and could lead to complications down the road. But the hardest words to hear?

"Pregnancy might not be safe for you."

They warned me of the risks—preterm labor, preeclampsia, organ damage, even life-threatening complications. The statistics were real, but so was my faith.

I didn’t just want to just survive lupus—I wanted to thrive. So, I committed to healing. I changed my diet, fueled my body with green smoothies and anti-inflammatory foods, prioritized rest, and managed my stress. I became the healthiest version of myself.

And then…

✨ I got pregnant.
✨ And a year later, I got pregnant AGAIN.

Back-to-back pregnancies. Both healthy. Both miracles.

Yes, I had my challenges—there were some major flare-ups, especially when I overdid it. (Hiking the Tennessee mountains at 30 weeks? Probably not my best idea! 😅) and my doctors pushed for induction at 39 weeks, warning me of the risks if I waited—telling me I was putting my baby in danger. The fear was real, but so was my trust in my body and in God’s timing. Ultimately, with the right support lifestyle changes, my body did what they said it couldn’t. I carried two beautiful, healthy boys full term, and I came out stronger than ever.  

So, to the women who’ve been told “It’s not possible”—I see you. I was you. And I want you to know that your story isn’t over. Your body is capable of more than you’ve been led to believe. With the right care, support, and faith, miracles happen.

 

Your diagnosis does not define your future. Your faith, your mindset, and your commitment to healing do. 💛✨

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